Feast of the Holy Family
By Fr. Chinnappan Pelavendran
Today we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Family. By celebrating the Sunday following Christmas as the feast of the Holy family, the church encourages us to look to the Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph for inspiration, example, and encouragement. We know very little about the life of the Holy Family through the Scriptures. They speak of the early years of the Holy Family, including the birth of Jesus in Bethlehem, the flight into Egypt, the finding of Jesus in the temple, and their life at Nazareth. However, we certainly know that they were a model family in which both parents worked hard, helped each other, understood and accepted each other, and took good care of their Child so that He might grow up not only in human knowledge but also as a Child of God.
Every human family is in God’s Plan. We know that in the book of Genesis, from the time of creation, God did not want man to be alone but created the human race as a family. The readings of today also speak of the family as a gift of God. The book of Sirach tells us about the obligation of parents towards their children. It reminds us of the first parents who were created in the image and likeness of God. It explains the close bond that exists between God and man. It teaches that children must learn from their parents about the love of the Lord and the precepts received from God. Parents must set a good example to their children. In turn, children must carry out their duties to God, to their parents, and to their fellow human beings.
The Second reading of today reminds us of the centrality of love. We are the children of God. In addition to our own family, we also belong to God’s family. We are all brothers and sisters to each other of our common Father and we share his life. There is then an obligation for all of us to care for each other.
The Gospel today tells us how Mary and Joseph offered the Child Jesus in the temple and returned to Nazareth to live a life of poverty. The earnings of Joseph as a village carpenter may not have been high. They willingly accepted the simple ordinary life in a remote village, living in harmony, observing the laws prescribed, visiting the temple and synagogue, and living an exemplary life. They accepted God’s will and were ready to accept the suffering and pain that came along the way. They are for us a true example of what family life should be like here on Earth.
The feast of the Holy Family is not just about the Holy Family, but about our families too. The main purpose of the feast is to present the Holy Family as the model for all Christian families. It is a good time to remember the family unit and pray for our human and spiritual families. We also take this feast to reflect on the value and sanctity of the family unit and to evaluate our own family life. We must ask ourselves what we are doing to promote the family within our own cultures, neighborhoods, and communities.

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