20th Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Deacon Dick Kostner
Faith means strong trust, confidence, or belief in someone or something — often without needing proof — According to Noah Webster the creator of the American Dictionary. Our Gospel story this weekend teaches us that miracles in this world can happen if we but have faith in Jesus even if we are not members of the Jewish community. We can learn to have trust, confidence and belief in Jesus and yes even proof in Jesus if we learn to only watch and listen to his children, his friends, who he gifts with wisdom and proof of his existence. But how do we find those gifted persons who he gifts with this knowledge?
I became more aware of my call to be a Deacon through the relationships that I have had with ordained priests that I have grown up with in my 77 years of life. I began to have a call to make friends with priests when I was in high school. Our Parish in those days had assistant young priests who served Bloomer and I began to desire to learn more about them so I decided that they should be invited to gatherings and “get togethers” with my school friends. We would many times have cook outs in the summer to just stay in touch with each other while schools was out for summer vacation. This turned out to be good for we learned that these guys were not “strange” but rather just regular normal guys who desired to serve others for their life vocation. While most of us were trying to figure out what we could do to get a job to make money, these priest guys were desirous to just be present and help others have a joyful and peaceful life through faith in Jesus. So I continued to have priests as friends as I studied to be a lawyer and ultimately became one and began serving others with answers to legal issues for some 51 years.
I don’t believe that one can have faith in another unless there exists a relationship between those individuals . It is through communication and mentorship that one develops faith by and through experiences faith seekers encounter in both good and not so good life happenings and events. How does one develop a relationship with God? The first and most important way is by talking to God. The Church calls this prayer. We can talk to God not only with a voice like we talk to each other, or when we participate in the celebration of his Mass, or, we can talk to God with our thoughts and mind. Either way we then need to understand what I call the language of God in order to understand his response to our communication or prayer.
Because God is Spirit we usually will not see His image although this has occurred to many people we call Saints. In most cases my experience is that God likes us to invite his presence in our everyday experiences. If we learn to be inviting for not only things we want, but also for times when we don’t know how to respond to a situation or we are praying for others, we will witness God giving us a response quicker than if our prayer is asking for something we want a quick answer to problems not that important to anyone except to ourselves. You will hear me say the phrase: “God does not have a watch or calendar there is no yesterday or tomorrow for God for he has no beginning or end thus time means nothing to him.” Which brings us back to another way God speaks to us.
God speaks to us through his followers whom he calls “his children, mother, brother or sister or His Church.” Let me give you an example. Barb and I recently attended a wedding for a grandniece of mine and I was asked if I would say a prayer before the attendants began eating. Just before I was called for the prayer my nephew, the father of the bride, told a story about how he acquired his nickname. The story was, I would say, “off-color a bit.” Not surprising to me knowing him well, but not a good way to begin prayer. I introduced myself as a Deacon for 27 years, and also a part of the Kostner family. I said that my nephew’s story would be a hard act to follow but I would try. I then told the story of how Jesus was called by his mother to begin his public ministry at a wedding he was attending by supplying more wine for the celebration for the wedding couple when it had run out. Jesus told his mother that it was not his time but she told the waiters to do as he asks. He then did as his mom had requested. I told the attendants that Jesus loved weddings and people celebrating marriage. I told them that he loved parties and yes wine and that I thought he should be invited to join the celebration. So, I began the prayer by inviting Jesus to come and join us for the celebration and I concluded with the meal prayer. I had numerous people come up to me and thank me for that prayer. That was Jesus talking to me, telling me that I had “done good.”
The bottom line for today’s Gospel lesson is be patient and persistent in prayer, and have faith and you will get answers to your prayers and maybe even a miracle, or at least, some wine.















