21st Sunday of Ordinary Time
By Deacon Dick Kostner
Today’s scripture readings from St Paul and St John give to us the meat and potatoes of how we gain salvation and the gift of heaven using the sacrament of Marriage for us to understand what we are called to begin and develop and that is a relationship with Jesus the “husband” and His Church, the “wife” the earthly body of Christ.
I requested from Fr. Victor, the opportunity to preach this message of direction because I chose St. Paul’s Letter to the Ephesians as a scripture reading when Barb and I were married 54 years ago. I must confess that I picked it not because of its intrinsic message about Jesus and His bride the Church but rather that I was just having fun with my Bride showing her that God has willed it that wives must be subordinate to their husbands “in everything” , for husbands are “the head of their wives”. Oh I didn’t disagree with the second part, that husbands are to “love their wives,” but it took me years before I realized the importance of how God gives wives a “get out of jail card” from being subordinate to their husbands in everything, the answer is, because of their husbands love for their wives.
Paul uses marriage to show us that God is not a dictator over us. Oh, God has power over us, but always qualifies that power over us because of His great love for his bride, the Church. The Church being “us.” We are Jesus’ bride. The bride he was willing to suffer for and even die for so that we could be with him for all eternity. That is why he desires not to rule over us but rather asks that we love him as much as he loves us, always putting the well being of his spouse over the wishes he has to have a relationship and desire to be with them for all eternity.
All married couples have disagreements. All married couples suffer disappointments with some things their spouses fail at. But the glue that allows us to accept imperfection is love.
Now lets move to our Gospel and the foods that will allow us to live. It doesn’t take a masters degree to know that if we don’t eat foods that we will perish. The body has to be fed in order for us to exist and grow in strength and health. But Jesus is trying to tell us that we are more than a body. Remember the scripture readings that tells us that God knew us before we were born? We are more than body we are each gifted with a spirit which does not have a body but is even more important to have life. Life that does not know death or governed by time. That is what Jesus is talking about. The Spirit like the body, needs food to live and mature. Jesus is telling his followers that he is the food and water that will allow the spirit within us to grow in love for him and his Church. We need him as food to grow in spirit with not only him but with his Church family.
Two people I have always looked up to for wisdom were Barb’s mom and dad Barb’s mom always looked forward to having family “get togethers”. It was there that we got to know Uncles, Aunts, nieces and nephews of our in-law’s, and yes some out-laws. As she got older we would hear her say more and more often: “We need to have a get together!”
When Jesus is talking about him as food he is telling us of the importance of coming together as family to get updated on each other and to form a bond with our spiritual brothers and sister and with our God who offers to make the food for us to enjoy at the Holy Family “get together”. This is the food that will allow us to be happy in this life with family support for the challenges of life, and to grow in knowledge and wisdom by celebrating the Eucharist with our spiritual brothers and sisters and people we grow in love with.
Our gospel tells us that without the spiritual food of Jesus our spirit will not grow in love for him and the family of God and when are bodies witness death we will not want to spend all of eternity with people we never got to know or found need of when times got challenging. Bottom line folks: The greatest fear for us to overcome in this life is in not the fear of a earthly death but rather to face Jesus after this life when all meet Jesus face to face and have him come up to us and say, “Hi, my name is Jesus and this is my family, and what is your name?”
Let me end with a thought for you to ask from Jesus above: “Jesus, if you knew me before I was born tell me what your plan is for me to help bring your Kingdom to the world I was born in?” Jesus tells us that our earthly life is short! How about we have a Holy Family “get together” with Barb’s mom and your family here every Sunday at Church? No need to bring anything but yourself and maybe a friend.
P.S. Jesus said he will bring the food and the entertainment.
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