32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Deacon Dick Kostner
Today’s Gospel message of the ten women who had the job of greeting the bridegroom (Jesus) teaches us that we might not be able to be perfect in the mission God has for us but that’s OK God only asks for us to say “yes” and be present as his representative when we are challenged with his call for service. Our gospel today has five women who, in their mind dropped the ball on not being properly prepared to great a bridegroom because they did not anticipate that he would be late and that they would not have enough oil for their candles to be lit when he arrived so they left the scene to get more oil. They underestimated the fact that their presence was what was the gift to the bridegroom not their lit candle.
Sometimes we overestimate the details of a mission God has for us because we want to be “perfect” in doing ministry for God and we forget about what is really important to God, and so we miss out on seeing God smile at us for doing his will even though we missed out on being “perfect” in carrying out a request by God. Two examples that made me realize these facts come to my mind when I was asked by God to help out as a member of the Body of Christ. The first was when I did my first Communion Service as a lay minister at St. Paul’s. I was nervous and after I had completed that mission request, I realized that I had forgot to do the prayer petitions. This bothered me all day but after Mass one Sunday a parishioner came up to me and thanked me for “being there for them” in doing a Communion Service when Father was not able to celebrate a Mass.
The second example was when I had just recently been ordained a deacon. Father was out of town and I received a call at 1:30 AM from the hospital saying a family had requested the Last Rites for their son who was involved in an accident and was dying. I told the nurse that I was not able to anoint but she persisted and asked if I could just come and say some prayers with the family? I gulped hard, put on some clothes, grabbed my prayer book and left for the hospital. I did not know what I could or should say to the family as I was unprepared for this event, kind of like the women in today’s gospel. When I got there everyone was around the sons hospital bed and crying. The injured man was in great pain and was fighting for his life. I opened my prayer book and began saying a “Litany of Prayers.” It was not long and everyone began to stop crying and the injured person relaxed and settled down.
It was like a faucet of suffering had been shut off for both the family and their son through the prayers that I had shared with them. After the prayers, the family thanked me for “being there” for their son and for them. As I left I realized that I had not put on my Deacon Shirt and collar which would have been proper if I had only thought of it and I felt bad for dropping the ball. As I was driving home I remembered the last words the family spoke to me. “Thanks for being there for us.” I envisioned Jesus smiling at me and saying, “You done good, thanks for being there for me!”
Recently, I had an opportunity to talk to an adult within our community who is in constant touch with and contact with our young people. I told that person that I was concerned about the our world and how we don’t have any tolerance for a difference of opinion. This person told me that within our community he has seen a very positive response from young people to be patient with other young people who are not only opposed to their idea of what being Christian is all about, and who have also been tolerant with those who feel that they need to oppose with aggression those who are not in agreement with their beliefs. He told me that it was not only with Catholic children but also children of other faiths within our community who are tolerant with others who have opposing views. A child’s primary mentor is its parents and family. God speaks to us through our mind and the mouths of his people, who St. Paul refers to as “The Body of Christ”.
Folks, “the Body of Christ” is alive and working even in our troubled world, and although we may not be as prepared as we would like to be I believe that Jesus looks upon us with a smile and as Jesus said to me he says to our faith community: “Bloomer, people, you have done good, and a big thanks for being there representing my presence!”
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