21st Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Fr. Victor Feltes
Jesus agreed to come and cure the servant of a Roman centurion, but the centurion replied, “Lord, I am not worthy to have you enter under my roof; only say the word and my servant will be healed. For I too am a person subject to authority, with soldiers subject to me. And I say to one, ‘Go,’ and he goes; and to another, ‘Come here,’ and he comes; and to my slave, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.” This Roman centurion had commanding officers above him and soldiers and servants under his own command. He had carried out others’ orders and with authority he had given orders to others. This Roman centurion had faith that Jesus of Nazareth, this Jewish rabbi, was God’s servant and prophet — perhaps even the Christ — with authority over angels or the elements of creation. Jesus is under authority and possesses authority, through which God’s will is done. He told his Father, “Not my will but yours be done.” And he tells us, “You are my friends, if you do what I command.” We are called to obedience to legitimate authority and Jesus speaks to us in and through his Church.
During my ordination as a diocesan priest, I placed my wrapped hands inside the hands of my bishop in accordance with the rite. Bishop Listecki asked me, “Do you promise respect and obedience to me and my successors?” I responded, “I do.” I hold this obedience very seriously. In the areas of our bishop’s proper authority, what the bishop wants me to do is what Jesus wants me to do. Of course, I should share with the bishop my input and feedback because consultation helps him to make better decisions. And if the bishop were ever to command me to sin, that command would be unlawful and should be ignored. But I believe what the Church, or canon law, or our bishop commands me to do, that is what Jesus wants me to do.
The saints strongly advocate for holy obedience. Pope St. Gregory the Great taught, “Obedience is rightly placed before all other sacrifices, for in offering a victim as sacrifice one offers a life that is not one’s own; but when one obeys one is immolating one’s own will.” The Diary of St. Faustina Kowalska records Jesus telling her, “My daughter, know that you give me greater glory by a single act of obedience than by long prayers and mortifications.” And St. Francis de Sales said, “The Devil doesn’t fear austerity but holy obedience.” And there are many other quotes from the saints which commend holy obedience.
This brings us to our second reading from St. Paul’s Letter to the Ephesians. I have never been married, but as a priest and a pastor ‘I too am a person subject to authority, with persons subject to me,’ and I know that without obedience no house can function well. St. Paul writes, “Be subordinate to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives should be subordinate to their husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is head of his wife just as Christ is head of the Church, he himself the Savior of the Body. As the Church is subordinate to Christ, so wives should be subordinate to their husbands in everything.” In other words, allow your husband to lead you and your family. Your input and feedback are very important in forming good decisions, and your husband has no authority to practice or command sin, but he does possess legitimate authority to lead. And “husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the Church and handed himself over for her to sanctify her… that she might be holy and without blemish.” In other words, you are commanded to love and serve, sacrificing for your wife and family, as Christ does for his Church.
Many of Jesus’ disciples listening in today’s Gospel said, “This saying is hard; who can accept it?” Jesus asked the Twelve, “Do you also want to leave?” And Simon Peter answered him, “Master, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.” And so it is for us. Sometimes what we are told may be difficult to hear, sometimes obedience or service will be hard, but to whom else shall we go if we are unwilling to trust and obey our Lord? He has the words of eternal life.
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