Archive for October 14th, 2023

The Power of Anointing

October 14, 2023

By Joan Herrmann

Fr. Victor Feltes with his aunt and godmother, Joan Herrmann, at his priestly ordination party in 2009.

When I was due to have my first lithotripsy (a non-invasive procedure using shock waves to break down my rather ginormous kidney stones) – they discovered that I had a pericardial effusion, that is, fluid around my heart.

Over several months, I had to see a cardiologist, and they monitored the effusion to see if it would go away on its own. It did not. So, I was scheduled for a pericardiocentesis, in which they use a needle to drain the fluid.

A visiting specialist in this arena was called in to do the procedure. I was in an operating room with a team of six hovering about and prepping me, and the doctor started checking out the area with an ultrasound. He asked the attendants for a history of the images of the effusion around my heart – the last one was from a week earlier, showing a large fluid buildup.

He looked at me and said, “Joan, this is your lucky day, I am sending you home – there is no fluid surrounding your heart.” Honestly, he seemed a bit annoyed and disappointed that his skills were not necessary that morning! I had to “recover” for a bit as they had already administered some meds to make me woozy… all the time wondering at this miraculous turn of events and so very relieved that I did not have a heart issue!

The most intriguing part of my story: I had attended the funeral of my Aunt Irene (my dad’s sister) just three days earlier. My godson, Father Victor, said the funeral Mass. Afterwards he asked me how I was doing, and I mentioned the procedure that was coming up. He asked for details, and then asked if he could pray over me.

It was just he and I in the church vestibule, the rest of the family and attendees had left for the funeral luncheon. He asked the church attendant who was still there for some blessed oil – and then he prayed, laid his hands on me, and anointed me. I seriously felt at peace afterward, knowing that the procedure and potential heart issue was in God’s hands. Then and there, I just let go of the anxiety. Based on the doctor’s perplexity, I know that I was a recipient of a miracle that day.

I celebrate and acknowledge September 26th, 2016 every year, when God’s providence and grace made itself known to me in a very personal and tangible way. That it was my nephew and godson who prayed over me and was the conduit to God’s saving grace and mercy – all the more profound!

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Miracles Opened his Mind

October 14, 2023

By Fr. Victor Feltes

I love Catholic conversion stories because they always have happy endings. Toby, a friendly acquaintance of mine, recently shared with me this great story of how he became Catholic. He is a 42-year-old, married father of three in Colorado who entered the Church at the Easter Vigil of 2006:

“I was fairly young when my parents stopped taking me to the Dutch Reformed church (my uncle is a pastor in one). So I had mostly no religion, but a little. In high school, I suffered terrible migraines that would make me vomit. One day, in the middle of upchucking, I prayed to ‘the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob’ to make it stop and if he did I would worship him. I have not had a migraine since—not even a little one. But a lot of people claim this God as theirs, so I had to figure out how to worship him.

So, every Sunday through high school, I went by myself to the closest church, a Calvary Chapel. In college, I tried other churches to see what seemed right, but nothing did. I ruled out Islam (since they do not claim all three patriarchs) and Catholicism because of my Protestant biases. So I looked at Judaism. I did a lot of research about the existence of Jesus and was convinced to try Messianic Judaism because I was convinced he was the Messiah. However, that also seemed empty. So I gave up. I lived a hedonistic life deciding that, though I believe, I would never know how this God really wanted to be worshiped.

Now midway through graduate school, I bought saint candles simply for décor (and because they are so cheap). One day, returning from vacation, I put a stone turtle souvenir I had just bought on my desk next to it, and took a shower. Coming back the turtle was in pieces on my desk. I looked up the saint, and the first webpage I found said Saint Jude was known for was casting demons out of statues and causing them to crumble. So I lifted my bias against Catholicism and attended RCIA (classes for joining the Catholic Church) and it fit. Things made sense in a way they didn’t elsewhere.

So, it took years and multiple miracles, but here I am. The Lord had to drag me to our Faith in a way that I could investigate the claims with an open mind, and not with the biases I had built up. It required a lot of changed views, but my journey left me docile. Two miracles and learning my own discernment was terrible can do that!”

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God’s Invitation

October 14, 2023

28th Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Chinnappan Pelavendran

Jesus used various parables to explain the concept of the kingdom of God. The parables show us that it is God’s will that all people be saved and He offers to humanity the gifts of salvation. The readings today, including the Gospel parable, invite us to accept God’s invitation with joyful hearts. The word of God challenges us to examine our own response to His call. God extends to us the greatest invitation we will ever receive: come to the feast, come to the banquet of eternal life. Sooner or later, each one of us has to give Him an answer. “Yes, I am coming,” or, “No, I will not come.” The choice is ours.

In the first reading, the prophet Isaiah invites us to have a glimpse of heaven. Our loving God has a plan for each one of us; the Lord of Hosts will prepare for all people a banquet of rich food. He will remove the mourning veil; He will wipe all tears from our eyes. No sadness or pain, only celebration in the heavenly banquet. Today’s Responsorial Psalm presents God as the Good Shepherd who nourishes, leads, and protects His flock. In the second reading, St. Paul advises the Philippians to have trust in the power of and goodness of a providing God, who, in Jesus, has invited us to participate in the Heavenly Banquet.

In the Gospel, we hear that the King, who is God the Father, gave a feast for his son’s wedding. Jesus is the groom wedded to the Church. The Church is the Bride of the Lamb. For this wedding, the king sent His servants, that is the prophets in the Old Testament, to invite people to the wedding but they would not come. The chosen people were not living according to the covenant. As a result, the king sent his troops, to destroy those murderers and burn their city. This could be a reference to the destruction of Jerusalem. Then the king gave an order to invite everyone whom they found on the road because those who were invited were not worthy. The chosen people rejected the invitation, but a huge number of non–Jews, the Gentiles, came to Jesus and had faith in Him.

Those absentees are not necessarily sinners; they are generally engaged in legitimate work, not sinful activity. One goes to the farm, another to his business. These are necessary and useful occupations. Sometimes what keeps us away from the joy of the kingdom is not sin but our preoccupations with the necessities of life. To be serious with our job is a good thing, but when our job keeps us away from attending the Lord’s Supper, it has become an obstacle to our faith.

To be a participant in the kingdom of God is a privilege as well as a responsibility. The responsibility is to accept the invitation and to undergo change in our lives. It is a change from self-centeredness to God-centeredness, from hatred to forgiveness, and from greediness to sharing.

The celebration of the Holy Mass is called ‘heaven on earth,’ a foretaste of the heavenly banquet. Before Communion, we hear the words; this is the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world. Blessed are those called to the Supper of the Lamb. This is not only an invitation to receive the body and blood of Jesus in Holy Communion. It is also an invitation to the eternal wedding feast in heaven.

God wants everybody to be saved. He invites everyone to His feast. Therefore, let us always say “Yes” to His invitation, and clothe ourselves with the garment of love, so that we may worthily enter the eternal joy and glory of Heaven.

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It Don’t Get Any Better Than Mass

October 14, 2023

28th Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Deacon Dick Kostner

Why should we attend Mass on Sunday? Our Scripture readings tell us why. Our First reading from Isaiah tells us that we will feast on rich food and choice wines; it goes on to say that death will be destroyed through the love of God for his children and the sacrifice of his sons earthly life, for our salvation. Our Responsorial Psalm prayers tell us that we need not fear evil because of our faith in Jesus; ‘only goodness and kindness will follow us all the days of our life.‘ Our Second Reading has St. Paul tells us that we will be well fed and living in abundance, God will fully supply whatever we need through his son Jesus. And our Gospel parable story outlines God’s desire for our attendance for the wedding feast of Jesus to His Church, and the sharing of His ministry of love with His Church, his earthly body represented by the works of his faithful followers. All this reminds me of the Old Milwaukee Beer commercial of a group of guys sitting around a campfire, enjoying each others company and sipping on a cold and delicious and proclaiming, “It don’t get any better than this!”

Our Gospel discloses to us that God is persistent in his invitation to us to join this wedding feast. It acknowledges that although everyone is welcomed some will decline the invitation for they have better things to do. Some will even ridicule the invitation as they need to tend to their business but the king does not give up and opens his invitation to the whole city but some even killed his servants who invited them. The parable story tells us at some point God will withdraw his invitation and they will no longer be admitted or allowed to participate in the wedding feast.

We all live busy lives but we must remember that our earthly life will someday end. The choice is ours to make for God will never force his kindness and love upon us. As Fr. Victor told us a few weeks ago, the Holy Mass is the place where heaven and earth meet. It is the place where we are fed and provided with the food of salvation which will allow us to live forever in the kingdom of God. We feed our bodies daily in order to experience life. We many times fail to realize that we are more than body we also possess within us the spirit of our creator. The spirit part of us also needs to be fed. It is at the celebration of the Mass that the spirit within this family is fed and nourished in order to provide for us peace of everlasting life with our Creator. It is the time and place for us to give thanks to God for all the gifts he has bestowed upon us and all he asks is that his children show appreciation for those gifts by joining him for the wedding celebration of eternal life between Jesus and his Church. I know that there are many reasons why people have abandoned the invitation from Jesus to attend Mass. It might be that you don’t like the priest; or the Mass is boring; or the homily is too long. Or there is a Packer game on.

Last week my friend Lloyd, at our That Man Is You class, gave me copy of something a Bishop had said in one of his homilies and Lloyd said, “Deacon, you need to use this in one of your homilies.” When a “Church Elder” tells me this needs to be shared I know the Spirit is at work helping me speak to his people so here it is Lloyd:

“A pastor asked an older farmer, decked out in bib overalls, to say grace for the morning breakfast: ‘Lord, I hate buttermilk,’ the farmer began. The pastor opened one eye to glance at the farmer and wondered where this was going. The farmer continued, ‘And Lord, you know I don’t much care for raw white flour.’ The pastor once again opened an eye to glance around the room and saw that he wasn’t the only one to feel uncomfortable. Then the farmer added, ‘But Lord, when you mix them all together and bake them, I do love warm fresh biscuits. So Lord, when things come up that we don’t like, when life gets hard, when we don’t understand what you’re saying to us, help us to just relax and wait until you are done mixing. It will probably be even better than biscuits, Amen.’”

Jesus gives us an open invitation to join him for the Holy Mass so please come and share his invitation with others to witness heaven and earth coming together to give give thanks and watch Jesus “do the mixing.” As the boys around the campfire proclaimed, “It don’t get any better than that!”

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Union With The Other — The Derek Seibel & Jocelyn Zwiefelhofer Wedding

October 14, 2023

By Fr. Victor Feltes

From the beginning of creation, God has made us male and female. Male and female are a foundational difference in our human nature. Though equal in dignity, the two sexes are not the same. We do not think about it much, but it is curious that God created us with this inherent division among us. He did not have to do this. God could have created us differently. Yet this distinction, this separation between us, is what makes marriage possible.

Does marriage divide us? Does marriage separate people? What do I mean? Well, like Jesus says, the man and woman leave father and mother for each other. There is a leaving of a previous family to form a new one. And because of marriage, both bride and groom forsake all others. In saying “yes” to one other person the newlywed is saying “no” to hundreds of millions of others. Marriage is an exclusive and binding relationship that separates a man and woman from having the same relationship with all others. A blinkered person could look at men and women and only see opposition. One could deconstruct marriage and denounce it as discriminatory and divisive. But these strange perspectives would not see the fullness of reality, the beauty of what God is doing.

Derek and Jocelyn, I doubt you feel today like you are abandoning your families. Rather, you are becoming parts of each other’s families even as you form a distinct new family of your own. And I very much doubt that you, Derek and Jocelyn, are thinking today about how getting married cuts off your dating options. Instead, you are experiencing joy in becoming more perfectly one with your beloved.

As a man and a woman, God made you for each other. And the unity you can experience together is described by Jesus as two becoming one such that you “are no longer two but one flesh [one body].” Marriage unites human beings and the human family. And here is the greater wonder: all men and women are made for union with God, who is supremely Other. And holy marriage offers both an image and foretaste of the loving harmony with God in Heaven.

In receiving this Sacrament of Marriage your union becomes more than natural. By cooperating with grace you become a living icon of the marriage of Jesus Christ the Bridegroom with the Church his Bride. You can tap into the love they express and give to each other, loving beyond your human strength. “Therefore,” Jesus says, “what God has joined together, no human being must separate.” Derek and Jocelyn, and every married person here: do not disregard or fail to realize what is possible in your sacramental bond. Invite God to perfect your love, for each other, for himself, and for all.

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