Holy Thursday
By Deacon Dick Kostner
Tonight we celebrate the Last Supper a time when Jesus called his disciples together whom he called brothers to share a meal and gift them with the Bread of Life and to commission them as priests and anoint them into the sacred family of the kingdom of God.
As I pondered the significance of this Holy Thursday I came to realize three great spiritual events of that evening. First was the importance of “family” in God’s plan for our salvation and how family is God’s University offering everyone the opportunity to earn a Masters Degree in the Gospel directive of God’s Two Greatest Commandments, “Love of God and Love of Neighbor.” Family teaches us that we need to be humble and wash the feet of not only our children but all we encounter.
Second: Jesus gifted humans with the Bread of Life by offering himself as spiritual food for us to become one in spirit with him through the Sacrament of Eucharist, and commissioned his Disciples to consecrate bread and wine into his own body and blood for distribution to members of his Church, the bride of Christ.
Third: He had such great love for humans that he willingly offered his life up so that the doors to heaven would once more be open so that we could gain everlasting life and live forever with Jesus, in the Kingdom of God. Family takes care of family.
Our culture has downplayed the importance of family, God’s creations of male and female and the importance of children and the parents responsibility to teach them about our creator and the need to mentor them with God’s plan for our salvation. The need to love our neighbor and to help each other through the Good Friday’s we all encounter. We see what happens when humans try to come up with a better plan than God’s plan for our happiness here on earth and everlasting life in the Kingdom of God. Yes, we live in world of suffering but we also live through those sufferings as people of faith in a God who loves us even though we are weak and sinful, and yes not too bright. Why? Because we carry within us the light of Christ, a soul that makes us children of God, made in his image and likeness.
You will notice that I named this reflection “A Thanksgiving Meal with Family.” Holy Thursday Services and the Triduum remind us that we are family and we do give thanks to a God for all the gifts he has bestowed upon us during our lives knowing that through his gift of Jesus, and his Passion and Death, we too can handle rough times knowing that Easter Sunday is coming!
I want to share with you the death story of a lady most of us knew and loved. She was a great mom and wife to Norman and was my first pick to be part of my RCIA program that Father Norm asked me to start back some 20 + years ago. She had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and knew she had little time to live. On one Christmas Day at about Supper time I received a call from her family indicating that she had just passed away, and asking if I could come and say some prayers with the family. I jumped in my car, prayer book in hand and headed for their home. When I got there I was greeted by her family and was surprised to see a smile on their faces. They had just finished their Christmas meal and we all went into the bedroom where she was laying. We said a series of prayers together and then went back into the living room.
It was there that the family shared with me her last few days alive. They told me that she had been dying for a few days but that she was determined to make it to Christmas before she would die. They thought that she was just “hanging on” for their welfare so they kept telling her that it was “OK” to go. Finally she got kind of mad at them and on Christmas Day she told them to quit telling her that “it was OK to go.” Then she said, “I just want to savor this last time here before I go.” The family went back to have their Christmas meal together and when they had finished they went back to her room and found that she had died. Knowing Kathleen, I told her family that I am sure she was thanking God for the life he had given her and praying for God to be with her husband and children.
We are told that after we die God will judge us by how we lived our lives. I looked up the obit on Kathleen to see how she lived. Besides taking care of her children and husband this is what I found: “Parish Council of Catholic Women Secretary; Treasurer of Bloomer Catholic Cemetery Assoc; Deanery Council of Catholic Women; Triniteam, Maturity Matters and 4-H leader for years; High School CCD Teacher; Eucharistic Minister; RCIA Leader; and active member of St. Paul’s School and Church throughout her life.”
I told her family that I thought we had just witnessed the death of a Saint. I believe the people of Bloomer have been blessed to live with many saints many from the parish family of St. Paul’s Catholic Church. Today and everyday let us thank God for allowing us to live out our lives here with this Holy Family and the people of Bloomer. Let us never forget the ashes we received on Ash Wednesday and our directive to: “Repent and believe in the Gospel,” and might I add, “Honor the Saints we have been blessed to pray and live with.”
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