2nd Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Fr. Victor Feltes
“God created mankind in his image; in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” When God’s Old Covenant people only knew of God’s oneness, they may have assumed we only share in God’s image by our freewill, our intellect, and our rule over creation. But Jesus reveals to his New Covenant people that God’s oneness is not mere solitude but a unity of persons sharing one divine nature – the Holy Trinity. The Father eternally begets the Son, while the Son eternally gifts himself back to the Father, and from their love the Holy Spirit eternally proceeds. And in the beginning in the Garden of Eden, from Adam’s side close to his heart, Eve is fashioned — the woman of his dreams, his equal in dignity, sharing one human nature. And from their self-gift to each other, another person (children) can proceed. A family or loving community reflects a fuller image of God than an individual alone.
The human body speaks a language. In the one-flesh union, a man and woman’s bodies express a total gift of self to each other, open to enduring love and open to new life. This embrace says, “I give myself to you freely and completely for the rest of our lives. In the sight of God and neighbor I pledge my love for you and promise to will the very best for you.” When an occasion of this act does not match what the language of the body is saying, it is a lie, a sin, and often feels impure. But when what is being said matches the reality, then it is true, pure, and holy. Indeed, for Christian couples it seals or renews their covenant in the Sacrament of Marriage.
God made marriage before the Fall and created it good, but after the Fall the relationships between men and women have been impacted by sin. Since then, their unity has been threatened by discord, spirits of domination, selfishness, infidelity, jealousy, and conflict which can even escalate to hatred and separation. To prevail over sin, man and woman need the help of God’s grace which in his infinite mercy he never refuses them. The Sacrament of Marriage connects couples to Christ’s grace to create new holy families. Indeed, Christ the Bridegroom’s earthly mission was a courtship leading to a marriage with children.
Jesus’ first recorded miracle was performed at the wedding feast of Cana. “There were six stone water jars there for Jewish ceremonial washings,” and his public ministry began by transforming those Old Covenant waters into wine. In Sacred Scripture, six is a number of imperfection and incompletion while seven is a number of completion and perfection. And there is a seventh jar in the Gospel of John: “[On the Cross,] aware that everything was now finished, in order that the Scripture might be fulfilled, Jesus said, ‘I thirst.’ There was a jar filled with sour wine. So they put a sponge soaked in wine on a sprig of hyssop and put it up to his mouth. When Jesus had taken the wine, he said, ‘It is finished (or fulfilled, complete, consummated)’ And bowing his head, he handed over the Spirit.”
Jesus is the New or Second Adam who, naked at a tree with the New Eve, proves faithful to God. Jesus enters the deep sleep of death, and from his side, from his heart, water and blood pour forth, the water for baptism and Blood for the Eucharist from which the Bride of Christ is fashioned. This bride, the Church, is fruitful in bearing, nurturing, and forming her children. The Old Testament foreshadowed this, like in our first reading from Isaiah: “As a young man marries a virgin, your builder shall marry you; and as a bridegroom rejoices in his bride, so shall your God rejoice in you.” And at the end of Scripture in the Book of Revelation it is declared in heaven: “Blessed are those who have been called to the wedding feast of the Lamb.”
The Sacrament of Marriage taps into the mystery and power of this loving union of Christ and his Church. In Ephesians 5, St. Paul writes how husbands and wives should love each other, with wives respecting their husbands’ leadership and husbands serving their brides like Jesus loves us. And Paul says in conclusion, “This is a great mystery, but I speak in reference to Christ and the Church.” Twenty years ago this year, when I was still a seminarian I attended my cousin’s wedding. Around the time when the bride and groom exchanged their vows, they were gazing in each other’s eyes, holding hands, and smiling. Then, without anything visibly changing, my perception shifted, and for several seconds I saw in them Jesus Christ marrying the Church. Now I hesitate to share this story because it might be like when someone talks about an “awesome” dream they had which fails to impress or translate for others. Yet I mention it all the same in hopes that, in addition to seeing the importance of being sacramentally married in the Church and being open to God’s will in bearing and raising children, you may have the vision to see your marriage in a new, real, more spiritual and mystical way.





