By Fr. Victor Feltes
In a way, our parents are our first representations of God. For instance, our earthly fathers—for better or worse—serve as icons of God the Father. None of our birth parents were perfect, so our spirituality can be wounded by their sins and shortcomings. But the goodness found in our parents—their virtues and their love—can help reflect who God the Father is. Ron, the father of eight children, was seen loving his farm, his family, and his Faith.
A hardworking dairy farmer, his farm has passed down to his sons. The farm transitioned to exclusively growing crops several years ago and there was sadness at seeing his cowherd go. God the Father, the creator of this earth, treasures his herd, too. David wrote centuries ago, “The Lord is my shepherd.” We are his herd. As another Psalm adds, “We are his people, the sheep of his flock.” Fear not, we are more precious than many cows.
Ron tended to be calmly present, very quiet, and listen, yet he ironically became the family’s so-called “informant.” When his children visited, one by one or in small groups, they told him all the latest about their lives and his twenty grandchildren. Then he in turn, though not in a gossipy way, would update his guests on the family news, keeping them connected to one another through him. “Beloved,” St. John writes, “we are God’s children now.” In Christ, God the Father adopts us as his own. He listens, cares about our lives, and connects us to each other. This relationship makes us brothers and sisters to each other here and now and makes us siblings with a multitude of the living and the dead, most of whom we have never met. But we can look forward to a family reunion of countless millions on the mountain of the Lord that the Prophet Isaiah describes: “On that day it will be said, ‘Behold our God, let us rejoice and be glad he has saved us!’”
Ron was interested in all sorts of subjects; well-read through not just news, farming, or financial publications but also many books. This universe is so endlessly detailed and interesting because heaven and earth are full of God’s glory. With Ron’s strong memory, he could remember details months after reading them. But no matter how sharp, worldly-wise, and learned a person may be, Ron considered these ultimately futile if one did not know God. As a St. Paul’s School alumnus, he sent all of his children to that school as well. He faithfully attended Sunday Mass, and when he could no longer attend he would watch TV Mass and have our Eucharistic Lord brought to him. God the Father is thoroughly interested in us all, and desires closer communion with each of us through his Son and the Holy Spirit.
Jesus praised God our Father, noting that although the wise and learned sometimes fail to perceive spiritual truths, our Father has “revealed these things to the childlike.” Jesus says, “Come to me [and] learn from me. … Whoever has seen me has seen the Father.” And St. Paul adds, “Be imitators of me as I imitate Christ.” Let us pray for Ronald’s soul, for the cleansing of any imperfection which might still distance him from God. And moved by the Holy Spirit, let us look at Christ to behold the best reflection of our heavenly Father. For he “is the image of the invisible God.” And then in him we can be transformed into saints whom others may encounter and see—like they saw in Ronald—an earthly likeness of God.
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